學習心理學其實是為了讓我在遇到問題時能夠找到化解自己心理情緒的方法，並不是為了研究他人，還是為了服務我自己。
看到這些很不錯的文字，來自我《人格與動機》心理學的課件，是阿爾弗雷德‧阿德勒 (心理學家)一些名人名言吧 ，分享下，溫暖別人的也會溫暖我自己,人要學會鼓勵自己，尤其是在沒人鼓勵和支持自己的時候，更要學會持續給自己打氣的能力 to my son also to myself：
Follow your heart but take your brain withyou。
跟隨你的心，但也別忘了帶上你的大腦。
Trust only movement.life happens at thelevel of events, not of words. Trust movement。
只相信行動，生命是發生在事件這個層次上，不是話語，相信行動
You can be healed of depression if everyday you begin the frst thing in the morining to consider how you will bring areal joy to someone else.
如果你每天早上都會思考如何給別人帶來真正的快樂，你就可以治癒抑鬱。
Life is just the same as learning to swim.Do not be afraid of making mistakes, for there is no other way of learning howto live!
生活就像學習游泳一樣。不要害怕犯錯誤，因為沒有其他的方法來學習如何生活!
There is a courage of happiness as well asa courage of sorrow.
快樂需要勇氣，哀傷也需要勇氣
It is easier to fight for one’s principlesthan to live up to them.
為原則而戰比實踐原則更容易。
Men of genius are admired. Men of wealthare envied. Men of power are feared: but only men of character are trusted.
天才是受人欽佩的，富有的，人是令人羨慕的。有權力的人是讓人害怕的，但只有有品格的人才值得信任的。
I am grateful for the idea that has used me.My psychology belong to everyone.
我對這樣的情況心懷感激：我的心理學屬於每個人。
Everything can always be different!
每件事都可以是不同的！
All failures- neurotics, psychotics,criminals,drunkards, problem children,suicides,perverts,and prostitutes-arefailures because they are lacking in social interest,
To be human means to feel inferior.
所有的失敗——神經學、精神病、罪犯、酗酒、問題兒童、自殺、變態和妓女——都是失敗的，因為他們缺乏社交興趣，
生而為人就會有自卑。
Nobodyadopts antisocial behaviour unless they fear that they will fail if they remainon the social side of life.
沒有人會採取反社會的行為，除非他們擔心如果他們繼續生活在社會的邊緣，他們會失敗。
Alie would have no sense unless the truth were felt as dangerous.
除非真相被認為是危險的，否則謊言是沒有意義的。
Play is a child’s work and this is not a trivial pursuit.
玩耍是孩子會做的是，但這不是一件小事。
Theonly worthwhile achievements of man are those which are socially useful.
人類唯一有價值的成就是那些對社會有益的成就。
Overcomingdifficulties leads to courage, self-respect, and knowing yourself.
克服困難會帶來勇氣、自尊和對自己的了解
Mathemtics is purelanguage-the language of science. It is unique among language in it ability toprovide precise expression for every thought or concept that can be formulatedin its terms.
數學是純粹的語言-科學的語言。它在語言中是獨一無二的，它可以為思想或者概念提供精確地可計算的表達方式。
There is only one reason for an individualto side-step to the useless side: the fear of a defeat on the useful side.
一個人選擇無用的原因只有一個:對失敗的恐懼。
只有一個:對失敗的恐懼。
